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What is up with guys trying to haggle?

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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby 412jay on Thu Apr 19, 2018 4:37 pm

I could be wrong, but I'll bet the guys with self-confidence and prospects for free sex haggle all the time.

When I exchange money for services of any kind, I try to get my hard-earned-money's worth. If there's a chance I'll get extra benefits for the set rate, there's no harm in trying.

The tone of this thread is unnecessarily combative. Sounds like hookers and white knights taking on men who aren't afraid to haggle. What's the point?
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Josie Wales on Thu Apr 19, 2018 4:50 pm

412jay wrote:I could be wrong, but I'll bet the guys with self-confidence and prospects for free sex haggle all the time.

When I exchange money for services of any kind, I try to get my hard-earned-money's worth. If there's a chance I'll get extra benefits for the set rate, there's no harm in trying.

The tone of this thread is unnecessarily combative. Sounds like hookers and white knights taking on men who aren't afraid to haggle. What's the point?


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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Big Stig on Thu Apr 19, 2018 5:50 pm

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Big Stig wrote:If a provider quits working because a few potential clients try to negotiate her rate, then she either needs to get some thicker skin or find another line of work. I mean really. They have the final say on their rates. Someone tries to haggle, just say no and move on. If it makes you feel better, tell them to fuck off. Every client I have ever had has tried to negotiate a better rate. It's reality.

How many clients have you had sir?

Enough that I don't really have to work anymore, thank you very much.
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Dlh on Thu Apr 19, 2018 5:57 pm

412jay wrote:
The tone of this thread is unnecessarily combative. Sounds like hookers and white knights taking on men who aren't afraid to haggle. What's the point?



I enjoy all parts of the hobby... the community, the girls, the storys you guys tell, the thrill of the late night adventures, and the a dig or two at other hobbiests in good fun. I also think getting the best bang for my buck is key... i think asking if there is a special or saying " thanks for your reply but my budget is 150."
By all means i will not contact someone i know is out of my budget by far and try to get them down 50%... but unless you know there rates its hard to tell.
No 1 should take a cent less then what they value themselfs at. But I think some providers ask more knowing they will be asked to move a little.
Maybe I cant pay their car note that day but I could the power bill.
Some money is better than no money...
But i will not say... "tiffany on the block sucks a mean dick for $40 y cant you!" This is a dick move.
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby MyVice365 on Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:35 pm

412jay wrote:
The tone of this thread is unnecessarily combative. Sounds like hookers and white knights taking on men who aren't afraid to haggle. What's the point?

Indys is allot like "Lord of the Rings". Their are fairies, trolls, and white knight's every where.
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby RWhite on Thu Apr 19, 2018 9:04 pm

Well, I've never haggled over price, I've never gotten angry over having to pay more than 50 or 60 bucks and I've never asked for a free trial.
I have however had sessions with providers on this site for 60 bucks before, I have had providers offer a lower rate when I said I wasn't interested in seeing her AFTER I asked her what her unpublished rate was, and if I wanted a freebie, I can find that on tinder or at almost any bar.
I am saying that I believe it's common for providers to offer different rates for different guys, and it's common for providers to offer an " how much can you afford" option when guys decline the unpublished rate.
I don't care that members do this with other members.
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Gabrielle on Thu Apr 19, 2018 9:58 pm

Dlh wrote:
Gabrielle wrote:I never minded a polite "I have x amount, is there anything we can work out?" Approach. Sometimes I did, sometimes I didn't.

What I hated was the "well so and so did it for x amount, so you should too" or "you're not worth that" approach that seems rude to me. And if I felt someone was rude I didn't think I could provide my best service, so no deal.



Thats a bold approach!


How so?
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Dlh on Thu Apr 19, 2018 11:21 pm

Gabrielle wrote:
Dlh wrote:
Gabrielle wrote:I never minded a polite "I have x amount, is there anything we can work out?" Approach. Sometimes I did, sometimes I didn't.

What I hated was the "well so and so did it for x amount, so you should too" or "you're not worth that" approach that seems rude to me. And if I felt someone was rude I didn't think I could provide my best service, so no deal.



Thats a bold approach!


How so?



I ment the "johns approach... by saying...
What I hated was the "well so and so did it for x amount, so you should too" or "you're not worth that"

Thats a bold way to do buisness
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Josie Wales on Thu Apr 19, 2018 11:31 pm

Dlh wrote:
Gabrielle wrote:
Dlh wrote:
Gabrielle wrote:I never minded a polite "I have x amount, is there anything we can work out?" Approach. Sometimes I did, sometimes I didn't.

What I hated was the "well so and so did it for x amount, so you should too" or "you're not worth that" approach that seems rude to me. And if I felt someone was rude I didn't think I could provide my best service, so no deal.



Thats a bold approach!


How so?



I ment the "johns approach... by saying...
What I hated was the "well so and so did it for x amount, so you should too" or "you're not worth that"

Thats a bold way to do buisness


How many clients have you seen......sir?
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby RWhite on Fri Apr 20, 2018 6:30 am

I've never haggled with an Indys provider.
I've never demanded a 50 or 60 dollar session with an Indys provider.
I've never pressed a new Indys provider for a free session.
However
Indys providers have offered me lower rates, sometimes by as much as half or less.
Indys providers have offered to lower their rates when I've said no thanks when hearing of their unpublished rate
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby sexymaid_69 on Fri Apr 20, 2018 7:32 am

412jay wrote:The tone of this thread is unnecessarily combative. Sounds like hookers and white knights taking on men who aren't afraid to haggle. What's the point?

The great point of threads like these
They show the ladies who regularly haggles pricing.

It shows the gents which ladies are willing to be haggled.

Both good information to have
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby 412jay on Fri Apr 20, 2018 8:41 am

Good point.

My message footer makes my position on haggling pretty clear.

If a provider's ad states that her rates are non-negotiable, I used to go to ECCIE for the inside hofo. We need another quality assurance portal.

Fellow hagglers, may I suggest we discuss haggling in the men's lounge? WK's have no power where the ladies can't see them.
I'm thankful for the hard work of the admins for keeping this site operating.

I respect and appreciate the reputable providers that keep us mongers entertained.

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Yinz are all a bunch of jagoffs.


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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Big Stig on Fri Apr 20, 2018 10:09 am

412jay wrote:Fellow hagglers, may I suggest we discuss haggling in the men's lounge? WK's have no power where the ladies can't see them.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
ROTFLMFAO! Oh my god, that's so funny.
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby tannana on Fri Apr 20, 2018 10:15 am

412jay wrote:
Fellow hagglers, may I suggest we discuss haggling in the men's lounge? WK's have no power where the ladies can't see them.


That's cute.
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby sexymaid_69 on Fri Apr 20, 2018 12:44 pm

How cute.
He still believes. 8)
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby MyVice365 on Wed May 09, 2018 8:33 pm

Josie Wales wrote:Why would a hobbyist care what other hobbyists are doing? I don’t give a fuck how other hobbyists operate. None of my business. This reminds me about threads discussing 1/2hr appointments vs hour appointments. Who cares, do what makes you happy.
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Bootzie58 on Wed May 09, 2018 9:05 pm

As I’ve always said “ a small piece of pie is better than no pie”
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Re: What is up with guys trying to haggle?

Postby Gaijin on Thu May 10, 2018 10:30 am

RWhite wrote:I've had sessions with 2 of the providers who thanked Gabrielles first post and paid their rate.
I've had sessions with other Indys providers and paid their rate too.
I've also had sessions with Indys providers for half their posted rate and THEY offered the rate to me.
I know NON Indys providers who ask as little as 60 bucks and I can tell you that they are just as attractive and skilled as any Indys provider I've seen. The rate does not necessarily correlate with the level of service.
I've introduced at least 30 Indys guys to UTR girls and probably 50 guys have contacted me asking for help in finding girls to see.
I met an Indys guy a week ago for drinks. I had a 22 yr old totally UTR blonde spinner with me. He talked to her too. She sees me for 100 and she's out of this world fantastic with looks and a hard body to match.
I know several more like her.
Please tell me what I'm doing wrong regarding sharing Intel with other guys and if it is wrong, someone tell me and I'll stop helping ALL the guys I've helped.
The OP raised haggling as a concern. I tried to explain that it happens all the time and Indys girls do this, Indys guys do this, non members do this, etc.


I realize I'm late to this party, but I'd just to offer that the moment you directly pay for booty, regardless of the amount, you sort of give up bragging rights.
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